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      【里索】
      【九型人格1】社会类型:
      这一类型的人专注于与他人的互动,他们的价值感或尊严主要源自他们对集体活动的参与,包括工作、家庭、爱好、俱乐部——基本上,社会类型在任何领域都能为了某个共同的目的而与他人互动。支撑这一行为的本能是人类生存的一个重要方面。人本身是相当脆弱的、善变的动物,很容易成为充满敌意的环境的牺牲品。通过学会和他人一起生活和工作,我们的祖先创造了人类生存和繁荣所必需的安全感。然而,在那种社会本能中,还有其他许多隐含的要务,其中首要的是对等级制社会结构中的“地位”的认识。在这一点上,狗和大猩猩跟人没什么两样。因而,渴望被关注、被认可,渴望荣誉、成功、声望、领导权、受赞赏以及归属的安全感,所有这些都可看做是社会本能的表现。社会类型的人总想知道他们周围发生了什么事,总想为人类的事业尽绵薄之力。他们通常对自己文化圈中的事务和活动兴趣盎然,有时又对另一种文化感兴趣。一般而言,社会类型享受着与他人的互动,但他们回避过分的亲密。在不平衡、不健康的状态下,这种类型的人会变得极端反社会,极端仇视他人、怨恨社会,或是社交能力低下。简单地说,不论九型人格中的人格类型关心的什么,反正社会类型的人专注的是与他人的互动,以及以各种方式建立个人价值、成就感和安全位置,等等。
      【九型人格4】社会(又名“适应”)本能
      正如很多人觉得只要渴望一对一的关系就属于性本能型一样,也有很多人误认为社会本能强烈的人总是生活在群体当中,社会性的人总是在参加各种会议和聚会,依照这个标准,很多人就会认为自己的社会本能并不强烈,他们绝不属于社会性的人。如果说自我保护型的人喜欢不断地调整周围的环境来让自己感到安全和舒适,那么社会性的人则会通过调整自己来适应自己所处的社交环境。因此,无论是处于亲密关系还是社会群体中,社会性的人都能够非常敏锐地察觉到对方。他们也知道如何通过自己的行为和态度来影响身边的人。而且,性本能型人寻觅的是亲密接触,社会性的人追求的则是人际联系:他们渴望长久的情感联系,并且希望融人到对方的世界中。如果所做的事情会对自己所在的团体或者其他更大的领域产生影响,社会性的人就会顾虑重重。这一本能类型的人比较热情、开放、投入,也更有社会责任感。在建立亲密关系时,他们更希望找到一个能够与之共享社会活动的伴侣,这样两人就能够一起参与各种社会活动。矛盾的是,社会性的人既不希望长期固定的性生活,又不想安静地独处,他们认为两者都是潜在的局限。社会性的人认为社交活动远比个人利益重要,一旦停止与他人互动并且从群体中脱离出来,他们便会丧失对自我的认同,觉得一切毫无意义。


      IP属地:黑龙江来自Android客户端3楼2014-09-14 16:58
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        【里索】
        【九型人格1】自我保存类型:
        这一本能类型的人专注于基本的生存需要,在当今社会,这些需要可能会表现为其他形式。因而,自我保存类型关心的是金钱、食物、家庭健康、人身安全、舒适等。居于第一位的是安全感和身体健康。这些人特别注意室内的问题,如昏暗的灯光和不舒服的躺椅,或对室内温度不满意。他们常常遇到与饮食有关的问题,或是进食过度,或是有严格的节食要求。从健康层级到一般层级,这一类型的人都最为讲求实际,因为他们关心的是基本的生活需求——付账单 、维持家庭和工作、获得有用的技能,等等。当这种类型退化时,他们倾向于歪曲本能,直到无法照料自己。不健康的自我保存类型寝食难安,或是纠结于健康问题。他们常常无法掌控金钱,可能会以故意自我毁灭的方式表现出来。简单地说,不论9种人格类型关心什么,自我保存类型只专注于个人的安全感和身体健康。
        【九型人格4】自我保护(又名“筑巢”)本能
        把自我保护作为自己优势本能的人会特别关注生理上的安全、舒适、健康、精力以及幸福等。总而言之,他们总是关心自己是否储备了足够多的资源来满足生活的各种需要。了解自己的身体状况是我们每个人都必须去做的事情,我们需要保证身体的各项机能都正常运转,只有健康地活着才能进行各种活动。可严格说来,生活在现代社会的绝大多数人并不需要去面对什么生死考验;因此,对于把自我保护当成自己优势本能的人们来说,他们就会特别关注食物、金钱、住房、医疗以及身体的舒适性。此外,那些有着强烈的自卫本能的人们甚至会想要帮别人保管这些资源。他们的注意力总是会不自觉地被这一类的东西吸引,比如衣服、天气、购物、装修等,而如果这些东西没有达到他们的要求,或者因为某些童年经历导致他们觉得自己的资源被剥夺了,他们就会更加关注这些东西。与关注性本能和社会本能的人相比,自我保护型的人一般都比较理智、现实、严肃、并且内敛。他们也许有着丰富的社交生活和完美的亲密关系,但是如果觉得自我保护的需求没有得到满足,他们就不会感到快乐和安逸。对于他们来说,伴侣就像是守卫者——他们在一个稳定且现实的伴侣身上寻求的是家庭的平静和安全。


        IP属地:黑龙江来自Android客户端5楼2014-09-14 17:02
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          【里索】
          【九型人格1】自我保存类型:
          这一本能类型的人专注于基本的生存需要,在当今社会,这些需要可能会表现为其他形式。因而,自我保存类型关心的是金钱、食物、家庭健康、人身安全、舒适等。居于第一位的是安全感和身体健康。这些人特别注意室内的问题,如昏暗的灯光和不舒服的躺椅,或对室内温度不满意。他们常常遇到与饮食有关的问题,或是进食过度,或是有严格的节食要求。从健康层级到一般层级,这一类型的人都最为讲求实际,因为他们关心的是基本的生活需求——付账单 、维持家庭和工作、获得有用的技能,等等。当这种类型退化时,他们倾向于歪曲本能,直到无法照料自己。不健康的自我保存类型寝食难安,或是纠结于健康问题。他们常常无法掌控金钱,可能会以故意自我毁灭的方式表现出来。简单地说,不论9种人格类型关心什么,自我保存类型只专注于个人的安全感和身体健康。
          【九型人格4】自我保护(又名“筑巢”)本能
          把自我保护作为自己优势本能的人会特别关注生理上的安全、舒适、健康、精力以及幸福等。总而言之,他们总是关心自己是否储备了足够多的资源来满足生活的各种需要。了解自己的身体状况是我们每个人都必须去做的事情,我们需要保证身体的各项机能都正常运转,只有健康地活着才能进行各种活动。可严格说来,生活在现代社会的绝大多数人并不需要去面对什么生死考验;因此,对于把自我保护当成自己优势本能的人们来说,他们就会特别关注食物、金钱、住房、医疗以及身体的舒适性。此外,那些有着强烈的自卫本能的人们甚至会想要帮别人保管这些资源。他们的注意力总是会不自觉地被这一类的东西吸引,比如衣服、天气、购物、装修等,而如果这些东西没有达到他们的要求,或者因为某些童年经历导致他们觉得自己的资源被剥夺了,他们就会更加关注这些东西。与关注性本能和社会本能的人相比,自我保护型的人一般都比较理智、现实、严肃、并且内敛。他们也许有着丰富的社交生活和完美的亲密关系,但是如果觉得自我保护的需求没有得到满足,他们就不会感到快乐和安逸。对于他们来说,伴侣就像是守卫者——他们在一个稳定且现实的伴侣身上寻求的是家庭的平静和安全。


          IP属地:黑龙江来自Android客户端7楼2014-09-14 17:03
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            http://tieba.baidu.com/p/3450779564 副型知识网络


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              Part 1. The Three Instincts: Self-Preservation, Sexual, Social
              In course of our evolution as human beings, we developed a set of three core instincts referred to in the Enneagram as the basic survival instincts, instinctual energies, "drives" or "subtypes". These instincts are part of our body-based intelligence and key to our biological imperatives. They are built deep into our unconscious nature and aid in our survival as individuals and as a species. Instincts are thus more fundamental than enneagram type; they relate to our 'animal soul'. From the perspective of the enneagram, we want to know how these drives manifest and function both as defined by each instinct alone and in terms of their alignment, known as "stacking".
              Self-preservation instinct is the first instinct to have evolved. This is an orientation towards survival, health, and comfort. SP drive checks in with the body: "Is this not enough or too much?" and orients by what the body reports on its needs. Of the three instincts, this is the oldest one; it dictates: “I must survive.” Animals are highly attuned to their self-preservation needs. Modern humans, however, are somewhat more distant from basic survival needs. That is, we have more sophistication in the sphere of physical needs and more complex regulation—once survival is taken care of, we aim for comfort and pleasure.
              The SP energy manifests as "conserved", "grounded", "tightly coiled", "planted", "immovable". The energy is usually heavy in its nature, as if the person is carrying some great weight on his or her shoulders and conserving energy for later personal use. This subtype will "sacrifice for self" to insure survival, rather than look to their group or mate to resolve their problems and challenges. Self-preservation types may forgo social standing or intensity of experience for physical comfort, security, and other factors that ensure their own survival. For example, a sp-first person may have "princess and the pea" syndrome, refusing to sleep on most mattresses because they simply don’t feel right. These people "look inward" based upon an inherent recognition that "I'm on my own" and "I have to take care of myself."
              Self-preservation instinct responds to practical concerns of everyday life. SP types express concern centering around issues of security, food and health, employment, sustainability. At times this may make them look like enneagram head types, because they be in habit of planning to predict unforeseen mishaps or possible breaches in their security. In addition, the comfort seeking element to SP types can cause them to appear like gut types because of their desire to avoid too much complication or “fuss”.
              In relationships, sp-first people focus on nesting, building a cozy home with someone, or may fantasize about such scenarios. Key words: self-maintenance, domesticity, practical know-how, finances, work, establishing practical foundation in life, back-up plans, fear of scarcity.
              In neurotic SP types, there is fear of not having enough resources, food, shelter. This fear can distort the natural use of the instinct and turn into eating disorders, compulsive buying, or hoarding. There is a tendency to shore up resources and possibly a strong sense of being frugal or sometimes even downright cheap. This is because resources must be properly maintained to ensure survival for themselves and those within their sphere.
              Topics SP types might bring up in conversation: food, dining out, dieting, nutrition, health, fitness, appearance and looks, money, savings and sales, shopping, employment, benefits, insurance, comfort, clothing, decor, interior design, strength, vitality, sickness, death, noise, discomfort, safety, security, environment, quality or durability of objects such as car, clothing, furniture, physical sciences, engineering, architecture
              Summary of SP instinct:
              primary concerns - physical safety, comfort, and well-being; securing an orderly and aesthetically pleasing way of life (food, clothing, money, housing, and physical health)
              primary focus - security, comfort, and well-being of the environment (lighting, temperature, comfortable furniture, aesthetics, food quality)
              primary ambition - using practicality and financial sense to create a secure environment in the home and workplace (paying bills, acquiring skills to ensure the orderly flow of life)
              primary stresses - money, sustenance (how they will get food, when it will come, if they will like it, if it fits their diet)
              coping methods (unhealthy) - over-stocking, overbuying, overeating, overpurging, oversleeping, undersleeping, overindulging in aesthetics or comfort foods, mistreatment of comfort and security as is skewed by the secondary instinct
              N.B. The instinct for self-preservation is attuned to the protection of the self, to its needs, health, comforts, security, and stability. This instinct is the strongest and most fundamental in virtually all life forms, and can easily override the other instincts should the life or safety of the individual be in immediate danger. In such threatening conditions, all of us are dominated by the instinct for self-preservation. But, in more general circumstances, when our health, life or security is not obviously or immediately endangered, this instinct will take a back seat, if the individual is dominated by the sexual or social instincts.
              Sexual instinct can be called the instinct of attraction. It’s aggressive, competitive, single-minded, "all-or-nothing". Use of this energy is intensely fiery and affirmative, go-get-it approach, a life-and-death matter e.g. salmon swimming upstream to mate and die. With this instincts you are either turned on or you're not - it is what it is; you cannot fight mother nature. With this instinct one's attention is wholly captivated energetically by someone or something.
              The SX energy is described as "high energy" and is often experienced as "intense", "assertive", "laser-like", "intently focused", "playful yet penetrating" in nature. The feeling of SX-first is sometimes compared to being on a roller-coaster ride even though you aren't on one. This subtype will "sacrifice for the relationship" to insure intensity connection. This intensity does not have to be met by another person—it can be satisfied by a project, hobby, or special interest. Rather than looking inward or to the group to resolve their problems and challenges, these types tend to look to close relations and activities that can guarantee them an experience of liveliness and intensity.
              SX-first people enjoy feeling invigorated. They may fantasize about scenarios that make them feel alive and that are emotionally stimulating. Key words: activation, immersion, charisma, broadcasting displays, fusion, inspiration, volatility.
              Sexual subtypes are not to be confused with having a healthy sex drive or being sexy, which is a common reason for many people misidentifying themselves as SX-primaries. The name of this instinct is misleading as, in the end, all instincts play into sexuality. SP is the body-to-body part - cuddling, sensuality, autonomic regulation. SX is riding the waves of energy, the invisible forces of attraction between the people, but it doesn't need to be actively physical. In a union, all three instincts combine - warmth (self-pres), energy (sexual), affection (social). One can have the sexual instinct operating in a group of friends—being in the heat, stimulated, energized, engaged. In relationships, there is a desire for endless engagement and fascination.
              Topics SX types might bring up in conversation: experiences, personal likes and dislikes, emotional and mental states, excitement, elation, ecstasy, intensity, energy, attraction/repulsion, passion, connection, desire, wants and wishes, possessiveness, jealousy, beauty, attractiveness, relationships, intimacy, sex, closeness, mating, risky activities, action sports, rebelliousness (sx-first people often report having strong personal preferences)
              Summary of SX instinct
              primary concern - intense experiences, connections, and contacts, wide-ranging and exploratory, in order to find something to "complete" them inside (sky diving, deep conversations, exciting movies)
              primary focus - people and attractions promising intense energy and charge
              primary ambition - looking outside themselves for the person or situation that will complete them, and then obsessing over that completing element
              primary stresses - lack of intense mental or emotional stimulation, lack of an intense connection or experience
              coping methods (unhealthy) - scattered attention, lack of focus, sexual promiscuity, intensely avoiding intense experiences and connections with a fearful and dysfunctional attitude toward sex, intimacy, and other intense "completing" experiences, as is skewed by the secondary instinct


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                Part 2. Instinct Stackings
                The dominant variant is the one given top priority, since this is the instinct that the person is most attuned to. There is certain rigidity to this instinct—it is non-negotiable; its needs must be satisfied. As one moves down the levels of health, the priorities of this instinct become more compulsive. The dominant instinct is what will grip your attention, cause sleepless nights, where your buttons get pushed, where you may start compensating. Even though this is the primary instinct, since it serves as a greater source of anxiety than the second instinct, the person may conceal its needs and put the second instinct on display. It may be said that a person comes to embody his or her first instinct.
                N.B. Claudio Naranjo describes the dominant instinct as a “weakness which looks like a strength.” By this, he seems to have meant that, as the dominant instinct is overdeveloped, it certainly will attend to the needs associated with that instinct; in this sense it appears to be a strength. But, as the instinct is unbalanced and guided by a fixated personality, it is not being properly utilized, and, in this disturbed state often does not actually best serve the overall interests of the individual who is in its grip.
                The secondary variant provides support to the first instinct. It is much less self-conscious than the dominant instinct. There is more flexibility to it—people generally do not stress as much about this area. They may experiment more in the realm of their second instinct, or just ignore it and put it off for a while.


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                  The application of secondary instinct is creative and exhibitionistic than that of the primary instinct. While primary instinct is constantly monitored and held in check, the secondary instinct is allowed to roam freely. Often, one has an exploratory attitude towards secondary instinct and may be inclined to start experimenting in this area, or turn it into a hobby, or use it at a supplement to their main occupation. It can be said that while people come to embody their primary instinct, the secondary instinct is akin to a creative field that envelops them.
                  Secondary instinct gets summoned in aid of primary instinct. In situations where people are not sure that their primary instinct would be welcomed, they often extend and offer 'products' of their secondary instinct by means of conversing on related interests. Sx/sp and so/sp types may talk about health, fitness, monetary, domestic, or culinary topics. Sp/sx and so/sx—about personal preferences, their friendships and relationships, fascinating and interesting experiences. Sx/so and sp/so may talk about cultural, social, and political events.
                  The third (last or bottom) variant in the stack is can be called one's “blind spot”—it's like an unused muscle that on occasion feels sore. One believes that this area is uninteresting and unimportant, that one can do without it. At the same time, there is shame associated with the 'blind spot' variant - a sense of deficiency. One constantly feels like one is lacking skills and refinement in the areas pertaining to your last instinct.
                  Often a negative reaction develops in response to seeing your last instinct operate in others. For example, sp-last people might get impatient with those who devote a lot of time and effort into making themselves well fed and comfortable - fiddling with the room temperature, checking seat cushions, arranging their bottled water, etc. Sp-last people can grow bored if they find themselves trapped in a conversation about food, home decorations or furniture, local deals, home prices, salaries. Sx-last people might feel uneasy when they see people openly demonstrating their sexuality, gender orientation or sexual preferences, engaging in PDA, discussing private feelings and experiences, etc. Soc-last people might get impatient with 'shallow' socialite “chit-chat”, get frustrated when required to network, and wonder how others can keep up with so many acquaintances. On the other hand, one takes the dominant instinct as a given. One may believe that everyone should be this way and become surprised that everyone else isn't.
                  The Passion of person's main enneagram type plays itself out in the realm of the dominant instinct. Instincts operate at a deeper level than enneagram type. Your dominant instinct will also be dominant in your enneagram type's wing as well as integration and disintegration points.


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                    Secondary instinct gets summoned in aid of primary instinct. In situations where people are not sure that their primary instinct would be welcomed, they often extend and offer 'products' of their secondary instinct by means of conversing on related interests. Sx/sp and so/sp types may talk about health, fitness, monetary, domestic, or culinary topics. Sp/sx and so/sx—about personal preferences, their friendships and relationships, fascinating and interesting experiences. Sx/so and sp/so may talk about cultural, social, and political events.
                    The third (last or bottom) variant in the stack is can be called one's “blind spot”—it's like an unused muscle that on occasion feels sore. One believes that this area is uninteresting and unimportant, that one can do without it. At the same time, there is shame associated with the 'blind spot' variant - a sense of deficiency. One constantly feels like one is lacking skills and refinement in the areas pertaining to your last instinct.
                    Often a negative reaction develops in response to seeing your last instinct operate in others. For example, sp-last people might get impatient with those who devote a lot of time and effort into making themselves well fed and comfortable - fiddling with the room temperature, checking seat cushions, arranging their bottled water, etc. Sp-last people can grow bored if they find themselves trapped in a conversation about food, home decorations or furniture, local deals, home prices, salaries. Sx-last people might feel uneasy when they see people openly demonstrating their sexuality, gender orientation or sexual preferences, engaging in PDA, discussing private feelings and experiences, etc. Soc-last people might get impatient with 'shallow' socialite “chit-chat”, get frustrated when required to network, and wonder how others can keep up with so many acquaintances. On the other hand, one takes the dominant instinct as a given. One may believe that everyone should be this way and become surprised that everyone else isn't.
                    The Passion of person's main enneagram type plays itself out in the realm of the dominant instinct. Instincts operate at a deeper level than enneagram type. Your dominant instinct will also be dominant in your enneagram type's wing as well as integration and disintegration points.


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                      Part 3. Dominant and Blind Spot Expressions of the Instincts
                      1a) SP dominant or secondary - survival, comfort, habits, supplies. You will take care of your basic needs and needs of those who are close to you. These people set up little homes or nests for themselves wherever they go. It can becomes neurotic when fear and habit distort the instinct (e.g. eating disorders, hoarding). One may experience “issues” that drain energy and cause one to lose Presence. Sp firsts are the grounded version of their type, while sp-seconds may have similar concerns but in lighter, more exploratory form.
                      More on SP dominance in health and unhealth (from Oceanmoonshine's)
                      Those individuals who are dominated by the instinct for self-preservation often have a grounded or practical quality; they frequently develop a high degree of self-sufficiency, discipline and maturity. Many self-pres subtypes devote themselves to programs for self-improvement and, of all the subtypes are probably the most “focused.” All of these qualities can clearly be beneficial, but when the personality is unbalanced, a dominant self-preservational instinct can manifest in an obsessive concern with questions of health, such as a focus on diet or exercise which might be punitive or otherwise excessive. Some self-pres types, when unbalanced, worry too much about health, mortality, finances or security. In fact, as life is ephemeral and safety an illusion, worry in general, of whatever sort, is a frequent manifestation of a dominant instinct for self-preservation.
                      b) SP blind spot - lack of solid foundation, lack in comfort and coziness, lack in attention to health and upkeep, since these people are rarely concerned about sp matters. There is fear is of being an "eternal child" who won’t take care of ones’ self and expectation of failure in dealing with sp instinct. They tend to look down on sp-domain, express certain cynicism towards it e.g. state that sp-firsts are too fearful and “don’t know how to really live".
                      More on SP blind spot
                      When the instinct for self-preservation is last in the instinctual stacking, the individual will often be somewhat ungrounded or seemingly “immature.” Such individuals often have a hard time focusing on issues such as financial security or the commitment to the development of practical skills. Sometimes, issues of health are ignored. In the more extroverted types, individuals who are self-pres last, often find it difficult to develop “inwardness.”


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                        3a) SO dominant or secondary - Focus on finding one's place in the world, neglect of other things in favor of group contributions (workaholic), need to be plugged into something, danger of being overly accommodating. This can be a narcissistic need satisfied through social manipulation. Focus is on politics, jockeying for positions and roles. You may not want to join but feel aware of the price, so question arises: do I participate or not? So-firsts want to know what’s going on with other people as a way to uncover the hierarchy - talk is currency, discourse is welcomed. Exploring - Are we on the same team? Who can I trust? Healthy expression—how can this help everyone? Unhealthy expression—what’s in it for me? Is this worth my while?
                        More on SO dominance in health and unhealth
                        On the high side, social subtypes are the most likely to sacrifice their narrow interests in service of that which is larger than themselves. They extend themselves toward others and often have a sort of generosity with their time and energy. They are aware of group dynamics and underlying emotional currents. On the down side however, social subtypes are the most prone to feelings of social shame; as they are the most acutely aware of the opinions of others, they suffer the most when they feel a sense of social rejection. Social subtypes can therefore suffer from self-consciousness. In less balanced personalities, this can lead to a need to conform to the standards of the group in order to achieve acceptance. Social subtypes can sometimes fail to focus on the needs of the self as they are searching for their identity in terms of the larger whole.


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                          b) SO blind spot - finds it hard to concern self with another’s agenda, dismissive. They may feel that connecting socially will cost them something and consider interactions to be draining. Would rather act as a lone force, lone wolves, I'm-on-my-own attitude, feeling that they don't need others and others don't need them. Fear of being emotionally crippled, being unable to connect with many people, self-conscious of being socially ungracious. It’s hard to take in the gifts and generosity of others. Projected fear - if I ignore others, they will ignore me. There’s an expectation of humiliation. A desire not to impose self on people in fear of not being wanted or being klutzy.
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                          When the social instinct is least developed, the individual is going to find it difficult to see why it is important to form social connections or to cultivate multiple relationships. This, in turn, can lead to a certain amount of social isolation. And, as we all must find a niche in the larger whole, those whose social instinct is least developed, can find it difficult to negotiate the needs of the social realm which make this possible. Those whose social instinct is last in the instinctual stacking, find interdependence difficult and dependence on others barely tolerable. But all human beings are interdependent, and sometimes, dependent - when they are, for instance, young, weak, sick, old or dying. Those whose social instinct remains undeveloped are trying to attain a type of independence and self-sufficiency which is not possible for human beings. This “false independence” almost certainly leads to unnecessary suffering and impoverishment of experience.


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                            Part 4. Overview of Instinctual Stackings
                            1) Social Instinct
                            a) soc/sx
                            Motivation: To create lasting connections with those they are interested in.
                            This type has very strong one to one social skills, but is usually uncomfortable in group settings. They enjoy cultivating multiple relationships, and can be intensely involved when in the presence of someone they are interested in, but have difficulty sustaining these bonds when apart. This may give the impression of being flighty and rootless, willing to adapt and mirror others in order to connect, but lacking a defined approach that would give their relationships a more solid standing. They may have political interests, but are generally more pragmatic and less partisan than the other social variant. They are often attuned to pop culture and the latest trends.
                            Energy: outward energy expressed intensely, broadly
                            Mindset: "If I can get close to people with merging/intensity, I can make sure of and keep improving my position and inclusion in the group/world."
                            Blind spot: Likely to neglect their desire to seek intense connections and experiences for the sake of their primary concern of building their sense of personal value, accomplishment, and security of place with others, in average-healthy levels. May not have an awareness of the body's need for food or sleep, or of the need to accumulate wealth for reasons of security, or of the need to manage time or resources to establish an orderly lifestyle.
                            Examples of soc/sx: Michael Jackson, Bill Clinton, Howard Stern, Margaret Cho, Jack McFarland from "Will & Grace"


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                              b) soc/sp
                              Motivation: To attain status within their chosen sphere.
                              This type is often the most comfortable in group settings, but tends to be a bit formal and awkward in one to one relations. This is the natural political type, affiliating themselves with groups or theories which best defend their social and material interests. They may lack warmth and individual identity and this could lead to problems in forming meaningful relationships outside of a shared social interest. They know what they like, but often find it difficult to get deeply excited or enthusiastic about anything.
                              Energy: outward energy expressed calmly, steadily, broadly
                              Mindset: "If I can establish an orderly and pleasing lifestyle, I can make sure of and keep improving my position and inclusion in the group/world."
                              Blind spot: Likely to neglect their desire to maintain physical saftey, comfort, and an orderly lifestyle for the sake of their primary concern of building their sense of personal value, accomplishment, and security of place with others, in average-healthy levels. May not have an awareness of the need to stimulate the mind or emotions, of a sense of deep excitement or enthusiasm, of a need for intimate experiences, of the need for the unfamiliar. May fall into routines and, despite social connection, may feel a strange disconnection even from spouses, friends, and family. They may often limerence but struggle to develop deeper attachments.
                              Examples of soc/sp: Hillary Clinton, Bill O'Reilly, Rush Limbaugh, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Ted Nugent


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