如何编译PHP5.5.0

本人是用yum源装的mysql 但不知 --with-mysql= 该指向哪里
./configure --prefix=/opt/php5 --with-config-file-path=/opt/php5 --enable-fpm --enable-fastcgi --with-mysql=/usr/bin/mysql
rpm -ql mysql-devel
/usr/include/mysql
/usr/include/mysql/decimal.h
/usr/include/mysql/errmsg.h
/usr/include/mysql/keycache.h
/usr/include/mysql/m_ctype.h
/usr/include/mysql/m_string.h
/usr/include/mysql/my_alloc.h
/usr/include/mysql/my_attribute.h
/usr/include/mysql/my_compiler.h
/usr/include/mysql/my_config.h
/usr/include/mysql/my_config_x86_64.h
/usr/include/mysql/my_dbug.h
/usr/include/mysql/my_dir.h
/usr/include/mysql/my_getopt.h
/usr/include/mysql/my_global.h
/usr/include/mysql/my_list.h
/usr/include/mysql/my_net.h
/usr/include/mysql/my_no_pthread.h
/usr/include/mysql/my_pthread.h
/usr/include/mysql/my_sys.h
/usr/include/mysql/my_xml.h
/usr/include/mysql/mysql.h
/usr/include/mysql/mysql_com.h
/usr/include/mysql/mysql_embed.h
/usr/include/mysql/mysql_time.h
/usr/include/mysql/mysql_version.h
/usr/include/mysql/mysqld_ername.h
/usr/include/mysql/mysqld_error.h
/usr/include/mysql/plugin.h
/usr/include/mysql/sql_common.h
/usr/include/mysql/sql_state.h
/usr/include/mysql/sslopt-case.h
/usr/include/mysql/sslopt-longopts.h
/usr/include/mysql/sslopt-vars.h
/usr/include/mysql/typelib.h
/usr/lib64/mysql/libmysqlclient.so
/usr/lib64/mysql/libmysqlclient_r.so
/usr/share/aclocal/mysql.m4
rpm -ql mysql
/usr/bin/msql2mysql
/usr/bin/my_print_defaults
/usr/bin/mysql
/usr/bin/mysql_config
/usr/bin/mysql_find_rows
/usr/bin/mysql_waitpid
/usr/bin/mysqlaccess
/usr/bin/mysqladmin
/usr/bin/mysqlbinlog
/usr/bin/mysqlcheck
/usr/bin/mysqldump
/usr/bin/mysqlimport
/usr/bin/mysqlshow
/usr/bin/mysqlslap
/usr/lib64/mysql/mysql_config
/usr/lib64/mysql/mysqlbug
/usr/share/doc/mysql-5.1.61
/usr/share/doc/mysql-5.1.61/COPYING
/usr/share/doc/mysql-5.1.61/README
/usr/share/doc/mysql-5.1.61/README.mysql-docs
/usr/share/doc/mysql-5.1.61/README.mysql-license
/usr/share/man/man1/my_print_defaults.1.gz
/usr/share/man/man1/mysql.1.gz
/usr/share/man/man1/mysql_config.1.gz
/usr/share/man/man1/mysql_find_rows.1.gz
/usr/share/man/man1/mysql_waitpid.1.gz
/usr/share/man/man1/mysqlaccess.1.gz
/usr/share/man/man1/mysqladmin.1.gz
/usr/share/man/man1/mysqldump.1.gz
/usr/share/man/man1/mysqlshow.1.gz
/usr/share/man/man1/mysqlslap.1.gz