love,i rememebered in our college english book,there is a eassay addressing on this topic and according to a nine years old boy,love is something you want to to run away,he was probably right about it for,love is about sacrifice,that you gave up on something to make something else to thrive.why some women do not want get married today?a underlying ,a hidden reason is they do not want to take their responsiblity and make sacirifice.