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2014-05-05
今天立夏,不过温度不高,刮风,还有点小凉
把手机贴吧客户端,微博都卸载了,出门这几天贴吧也断签了,不用大早上一睁眼就强迫开手机签到刷贴吧了
作息调整,争取晚上10点睡觉,早上5点起床,中午小睡1小时以内,最好半小时


122楼2014-05-05 19:16
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    一大早,补完了《变形计之少年少年》,两个男孩儿和一个留守少年的互换,明明是同龄人,但是山里孩子真的太过弱小了,看了半天,总觉得两个男孩儿的那个腼腆的同学很受的我,还有药可救么?卧渠,为啥看着么主旋律和高大上的节目,我还会有这种联系,我真的无奈了,希望两个孩子回到城市后,可以保持现在的状态,重新开始人生的轨迹,也希望梁训在经历了一个月的城市生活后,能够继续适应孤独的山村生活,人生就是这样,变形计的结尾总是如此,各回各家,各找各妈,只是心里装载的东西不同了,就如同小主人公说的那样,从前我想砍死我妈,而现在我只想砍死自己,成长总是带着痛,那就让这痛持续得更久一些吧。


    123楼2014-05-06 08:19
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      2014.05.07
      今天出门办事,地铁都坐了半个多小时才想起来材料没带……只好原路折返
      脑子秀逗了


      124楼2014-05-07 19:05
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        How to write a research proposal?
        文章作者Paul T. P. Wong, Ph.D., C.Psych. (Research Director, Graduate Program in Counselling Psychology. Trinity Western University Langley, BC, Canada). 题为:How to Write a Research Proposal. 全文转载如下:
        Most students and beginning researchers do not fully understand what a research proposal means, nor do they understand its importance. To put it bluntly, one’s research is only as a good as one’s proposal. An ill-conceived proposal dooms the project even if it somehow gets through the Thesis Supervisory Committee. A high quality proposal, on the other hand, not only promises success for the project, but also impresses your Thesis Committee about your potential as a researcher.
        A research proposal is intended to convince others that you have a worthwhile research project and that you have the competence and the work-plan to complete it. Generally, a research proposal should contain all the key elements involved in the research process and include sufficient information for the readers to evaluate the proposed study.
        Regardless of your research area and the methodology you choose, all research proposals must address the following questions: What you plan to accomplish, why you want to do it and how you are going to do it.
        The proposal should have sufficient information to convince your readers that you have an important research idea, that you have a good grasp of the relevant literature and the major issues, and that your methodology is sound.
        The quality of your research proposal depends not only on the quality of your proposed project, but also on the quality of your proposal writing. A good research project may run the risk of rejection simply because the proposal is poorly written. Therefore, it pays if your writing is coherent, clear and compelling.
        This paper focuses on proposal writing rather than on the development of research ideas.
        TITLE:
        It should be concise and descriptive. For example, the phrase, “An investigation of . . .” could be omitted. Often titles are stated in terms of a functional relationship, because such titles clearly indicate the independent and dependent variables. However, if possible, think of an informative but catchy title. An effective title not only pricks the reader’s interest, but also predisposes him/her favourably towards the proposal.
        ABSTRACT:
        It is a brief summary of approximately 300 words. It should include the research question, the rationale for the study, the hypothesis (if any), the method and the main findings. Descriptions of the method may include the design, procedures, the sample and any instruments that will be used.
        INTRODUCTION:
        The main purpose of the introduction is to provide the necessary background or context for your research problem. How to frame the research problem is perhaps the biggest problem in proposal writing.
        If the research problem is framed in the context of a general, rambling literature review, then the research question may appear trivial and uninteresting. However, if the same question is placed in the context of a very focused and current research area, its significance will become evident.
        Unfortunately, there are no hard and fast rules on how to frame your research question just as there is no prescription on how to write an interesting and informative opening paragraph. A lot depends on your creativity, your ability to think clearly and the depth of your understanding of problem areas.
        However, try to place your research question in the context of either a current “hot” area, or an older area that remains viable. Secondly, you need to provide a brief but appropriate historical backdrop. Thirdly, provide the contemporary context in which your proposed research question occupies the central stage. Finally, identify “key players” and refer to the most relevant and representative publications. In short, try to paint your research question in broad brushes and at the same time bring out its significance.
        The introduction typically begins with a general statement of the problem area, with a focus on a specific research problem, to be followed by the rational or justification for the proposed study. The introduction generally covers the following elements:
        1. State the research problem, which is often referred to as the purpose of the study.
        2. Provide the context and set the stage for your research question in such a way as to show its necessity and importance.
        3. Present the rationale of your proposed study and clearly indicate why it is worth doing.
        4. Briefly describe the major issues and sub-problems to be addressed by your research.
        5. Identify the key independent and dependent variables of your experiment. Alternatively, specify the phenomenon you want to study.
        6. State your hypothesis or theory, if any. For exploratory or phenomenological research, you may not have any hypotheses. (Please do not confuse the hypothesis with the statistical null hypothesis.)
        7. Set the delimitation or boundaries of your proposed research in order to provide a clear focus.
        8. Provide definitions of key concepts. (This is optional.)
        LITERATURE REVIEW:
        Sometimes the literature review is incorporated into the introduction section. However, most professors prefer a separate section, which allows a more thorough review of the literature.
        The literature review serves several important functions:
        1. Ensures that you are not “reinventing the wheel”.
        2. Gives credits to those who have laid the groundwork for your research.
        3. Demonstrates your knowledge of the research problem.
        4. Demonstrates your understanding of the theoretical and research issues related to your research question.
        5. Shows your ability to critically evaluate relevant literature information.
        6. Indicates your ability to integrate and synthesize the existing literature.
        7. Provides new theoretical insights or develops a new model as the conceptual framework for your research.
        8. Convinces your reader that your proposed research will make a significant and substantial contribution to the literature (i.e., resolving an important theoretical issue or filling a major gap in the literature).
        Most students’ literature reviews suffer from the following problems:
        * Lacking organization and structure
        * Lacking focus, unity and coherence
        * Being repetitive and verbose
        * Failing to cite influential papers
        * Failing to keep up with recent developments
        * Failing to critically evaluate cited papers
        * Citing irrelevant or trivial references
        * Depending too much on secondary sources
        Your scholarship and research competence will be questioned if any of the above applies to your proposal.
        There are different ways to organize your literature review. Make use of subheadings to bring order and coherence to your review. For example, having established the importance of your research area and its current state of development, you may devote several subsections on related issues as: theoretical models, measuring instruments, cross-cultural and gender differences, etc.
        It is also helpful to keep in mind that you are telling a story to an audience. Try to tell it in a stimulating and engaging manner. Do not bore them, because it may lead to rejection of your worthy proposal. (Remember: Professors and scientists are human beings too.)


        125楼2014-05-07 19:07
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          METHODS:
          The Method section is very important because it tells your Research Committee how you plan to tackle your research problem. It will provide your work plan and describe the activities necessary for the completion of your project.
          The guiding principle for writing the Method section is that it should contain sufficient information for the reader to determine whether methodology is sound. Some even argue that a good proposal should contain sufficient details for another qualified researcher to implement the study.
          You need to demonstrate your knowledge of alternative methods and make the case that your approach is the most appropriate and most valid way to address your research question.
          Please note that your research question may be best answered by qualitative research. However, since most mainstream psychologists are still biased against qualitative research, especially the phenomenological variety, you may need to justify your qualitative method.
          Furthermore, since there are no well-established and widely accepted canons in qualitative analysis, your method section needs to be more elaborate than what is required for traditional quantitative research. More importantly, the data collection process in qualitative research has a far greater impact on the results as compared to quantitative research. That is another reason for greater care in describing how you will collect and analyze your data. (How to write the Method section for qualitative research is a topic for another paper.)
          For quantitative studies, the method section typically consists of the following sections:
          1. Design -Is it a questionnaire study or a laboratory experiment? What kind of design do you choose?
          2. Subjects or participants – Who will take part in your study ? What kind of sampling procedure do you use?
          3. Instruments – What kind of measuring instruments or questionnaires do you use? Why do you choose them? Are they valid and reliable?
          4. Procedure – How do you plan to carry out your study? What activities are involved? How long does it take?
          RESULTS:
          Obviously you do not have results at the proposal stage. However, you need to have some idea about what kind of data you will be collecting, and what statistical procedures will be used in order to answer your research question or test you hypothesis.
          DISCUSSION:
          It is important to convince your reader of the potential impact of your proposed research. You need to communicate a sense of enthusiasm and confidence without exaggerating the merits of your proposal. That is why you also need to mention the limitations and weaknesses of the proposed research, which may be justified by time and financial constraints as well as by the early developmental stage of your research area.
          Common Mistakes in Proposal Writing
          1. Failure to provide the proper context to frame the research question.
          2. Failure to delimit the boundary conditions for your research.
          3. Failure to cite landmark studies.
          4. Failure to accurately present the theoretical and empirical contributions by other researchers.
          5. Failure to stay focused on the research question.
          6. Failure to develop a coherent and persuasive argument for the proposed research.
          7. Too much detail on minor issues, but not enough detail on major issues.
          8. Too much rambling — going “all over the map” without a clear sense of direction. (The best proposals move forward with ease and grace like a seamless river.)
          9. Too many citation lapses and incorrect references.
          10. Too long or too short.
          11. Failing to follow the APA style.
          12. Slopping writing.


          126楼2014-05-07 20:15
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            2014.05.11
            母亲节,何年我会过这个节,没有预期。
            今天出门听到一首老歌,两句歌词是这样的:
            想说爱你并不是容易的事,想说忘记你也不是容易的事,我只有伫立在风中想你。
            我小学时候的歌吧,小伙伴有知道的,咱们木有代沟,哈哈
            第一感觉是,要不要这么纠结啊,想说爱当然不容易,需要承担责任的,承担不了又不想放弃,可不是啥也做不成,想不想倒是你的权利,不过光想也没啥用。是安慰呢,还是更痛苦呢,只有自己知道了。
            这纠结的情歌


            127楼2014-05-11 19:07
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              西瓜君的悲惨日常
              昨日,公交车上,一男子手拎西瓜,报站停车,西瓜一骨碌滚到下车门的台阶上,清脆一声响,西瓜裂了一条缝。车停稳,门开。车门刚好卡住西瓜,西瓜汁横流。
              可惜了一个大西瓜,怎么这么巧这会掉下去,怎么这么巧刚好赶上开门。
              估计拿出来也成伤残了,自己吃将就下,还可以。送人的话,没办法了。
              是西瓜悲惨,还是西瓜的主人悲惨呢。估计要慨叹这一天没看好黄历就出了门,实在是倒霉,诸事不宜。
              其实,这就是很平常的一件小事,虽然这种事情发生的概率很低,但出乎你意料之外的事情,总会不断发生。
              你能抱着一个坏掉的西瓜,继续开开心心地走在路上么?


              128楼2014-05-11 19:15
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                苏菲
                你送的吃的已经被我们吃得差不多了……
                今天给那边寝室的孩纸分了点她们说鸡蛋干好神奇……
                然后问你鸡蛋干和芒果干在哪里买的……
                然后嘛 我最喜欢辣辣滴牛肉干啦好久没吃到了热泪ING
                然后鸡枞太棒了!!!搭配舌尖中国不二选!!!我妈的爱……吃的时候还给她打了个电话炫耀哈哈哈哈哈然后她问是谁送的我说你不认识她问男生女生我说女生她就兴趣索然的样子……


                IP属地:贵州129楼2014-05-28 21:15
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                  正在看Sophie's World
                  苏菲你的名字是从这里来的吗
                  以前不是说过有位朋友也叫Sophie嘛她的名字是从《绿光森林》里来的


                  IP属地:贵州130楼2014-06-06 11:29
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                    真情告白,哈哈
                    「博雅,就算你说的没错,但要让我活下去,还必须有另一样东西……」
                      「什么东西?」
                      「正是你,博雅。」
                      晴明瞄了博雅一眼,红红的嘴角浮出微笑。
                      「没头没脑的,你在说什么?晴明……」
                      博雅有点狼狈。为了掩饰狼狈,他一口气喝干杯中的酒。
                      「偶尔不看看你这种表情,就算活着也会很无聊……」晴明道。
                      「你有病啊……」
                      博雅说毕,将手中还没搁下的酒杯送至唇边,正要喝时,才发现杯内已无酒。
                      「博雅,你真是个好汉子……」
                      晴明说着,浅笑起来。


                    131楼2014-06-06 16:46
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                      2014.07.18
                      @大爱永存_铃
                      亲爱的看过来
                      好心情哦



                      132楼2014-07-18 05:40
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                        今天听闻一个朋友家里出了状况然后把自己家的狗狗卖到了屠宰市场,难过了一天,最后没忍住去市场找那只狗狗,刚好遇到了好心人把他救走。。。这是不幸中的大幸吧。交谈了几句,虽然他家里情况也没有很好,但他是一个懂狗的人(至少比狗狗的原主人有负责感)。我想,这也是最好的安排吧。就像sola可以遇到苏菲你一样。


                        来自iPhone客户端133楼2014-08-17 19:55
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                          来看看长相惊人奇葩的花~
                          http://www.gamersky.com/ent/201408/392925.shtml
                          兰花中肿么有这么多奇葩呢


                          134楼2014-08-17 22:01
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                            2014-08-18
                            美咲童鞋生日快乐!
                            儿子都是你的了,礼物就木有了~


                            135楼2014-08-18 19:02
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                              关注ALS
                              http://v.youku.com/v_show/id_XNzU5OTQ4Mzcy.html?f=22720170
                              患ALS的名人,霍金。这真的是一个噩梦般的疾病。
                              这是一个价值选择,ASL发病率并不高,但目前仍没有办法医治。从宏观的角度考虑,与其投资一个只能利益很少的人并且很可能耗资巨大并且无解的项目,不如投资其他更常见的疾病,挽救更多人的生命。
                              但生命是平等的,无法用数量衡量,对于个体来说,生命都是最珍贵的。
                              愿ALS的研究更加成熟,帮助更多ALS患者。
                              ALS协会官网:http://www.als.net


                              139楼2014-08-23 23:06
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